Viewings of Tankardstown are strictly scheduled with one of our wedding co-ordinators. Because Tankardstown is a Country House, it is not like a normal hotel, and we must consider any guests/small groups who may be staying with us. A simple call or email and one of our wedding co-ordinators will be delighted to arrange a suitable time so they can offer you the best viewing possible of our beautiful property, including the bedrooms where possible.
What can we expect Tankardstown to provide to complement our package?
Wonderful personal service to look after both you and your guests amid the beautiful house and gardens; Red Carpet on arrival; Open Fires on cold/dull days; Tea lights throughout all reception rooms; Personalised Menu Cards & Table Plan; Table Silks; Chiavari Chairs; 5-Arm Candelabra & Candles; Seating for up to 250 guests dining in the Orangery; Wedding Cake Stand & Knife; Magnificent photographic backdrops; Pre-wedding Tasting of your final selected Wedding Meal on a date/at a time to suit; The assistance of both the Tankardstown Wedding Co-Ordinator and Banqueting Manager along with complimentary Bridal Suite for the night of the wedding.
Do you have a minimum number of guests required?
Yes, from Sunday to Wednesday a minimum of 50 adult guests are required; Thursday 80 adult guests; Friday 120 adult guests; Saturday 140 adult guests and New Year’s Eve 150 adult guests. Exceptions apply on minimum requirements on the week leading to Christmas and the week after Christmas. Exceptions also apply to smaller numbers than minimum of 50 adult guests on a mid-week basis (Monday -Wednesday) for the ‘Entirely Tankardstown’ wedding package, please speak with your wedding coordinator for further information.
Is there a separate venue hire charge?
No, this does not apply to weddings held at Tankardstown.
Do you host Ceremonies on the estate?
Yes, ceremonies can be held 7 days a week in Tankardstown, indoors or outdoors, weather dependent. For further information on procedures please see the official government website www.groireland.ie. The HSE performs ceremonies Mon- Fri only. For weekend weddings, a Religious or Secular Solemniser is required. www.spiritualceremoniesie; www.humanism.ie
Can you get ready onsite the morning of the wedding?
Yes, Tankardstown can offer you a private hire preparation area called ‘The Secret Garden’. This is located in our ‘Garden Village’ and is a short stroll from the Manor House and Walled Garden. Arrival from 8am. Please see page 30 of the brochure for further information.
Are there Churches nearby?
Catholic Churches nearby include Slane, Monknewtown, Rushwee, Rathkenny and Rathfeigh. The nearest Church of Ireland is in Slane. We can provide a list and contact numbers.
When can we have our speeches?
Speeches are hosted after dinner. If you wish to opt for speeches prior to dinner service commencing, there is a fee.
Is it easy to get transportation to local surrounding accommodation?
Tankardstown can organise a shuttle bus service to local surrounding accommodation and would charge you as a couple for this service.
Are your Restaurants open on the day of a Wedding?
Brabazon Restaurant is located in the lower courtyard area to the rear of the Main House. This area is known as The Garden Village and has its own dedicated entrance. There is also a large electric gate between the Garden Village and the Main House which is kept closed on days of Weddings, thus keeping the House and surrounds exclusive for the wedding party. The Restaurant remain closed on Mondays and Tuesdays of each week.
Can you tell me a bit more about guest accommodation at Tankardstown?
It is a requirement to book all seven Manor House rooms on the wedding night. Tankardstown House has five luxurious bedrooms in the Manor House plus the Library Suite and Master Suite sleeping a total of 14 people. In addition, there are seven beautifully appointed Courtyard Cottage Suites situated in the adjacent courtyard which sleep a further 44 guests. Furthermore, the Barn & Stables alongside Tankardstown Lodge offer an additional twenty-two bedrooms sleeping an additional 44 guests. Overall, Tankardstown can offer accommodation for 102 guests in total on the estate. Breakfast is included in all overnight rates.
Is there other accommodation in the area?
Yes, there are several alternative accommodation options in the area, and we have a list with names and contact details which can be provided. We would recommend that alternative accommodation is booked well in advance to avoid any disappointment nearer to the time. In terms of transport, there is a local transport company who we would recommend (due to our remote location), that you can contact and book to have your guests shuttled back and forth to the accommodation in the surrounding area.
Is there the option to host a two-day event?
Yes, we can host a two-day event, any two days Saturday to Wednesday subject to availability. (Please note that Fridays, Bank Holiday weekends and dates around Christmas are considered single day events). Where a pre- or post-wedding day falls on a Monday or Tuesday, you are contractually obliged to fill the seven Manor House bedrooms along with the wedding night. Wedding parties can choose to enjoy a family dinner in Brabazon Restaurant from a Set Menu tailored so dishes will not coincide with those planned for the Wedding Dinner. For the day after the wedding a BBQ can be organised and is a very popular choice with our guests.
How do we select dishes for our Wedding Dinner?
The selection of dishes will depend on which Wedding Package you have selected. A lot of careful thought and planning by our team of Chef’s has been injected into creating the Master Wedding Menu. Each and every dish on this Menu has been tested to ensure that only the finest produce is being served in its prime, combining elements and flavours to please most palates. It is also imperative that these dishes can be expedited for large numbers, without any compromise.
What happens at the Pre-Wedding Tasting?
Your wedding co-ordinator will be in contact with you to consider a date for your pre wedding tasting. Based on your wedding package you should submit your choices of the ideal wedding meal that you would both like to sample and potentially serve to your guests on your wedding day. This information would be required approx. 14 days prior to the arranged time/date. At the tasting then, you will both enjoy some quiet time in the Garden Village where this Meal will be served up to you with great care and attention to detail. If you have any related thoughts or questions, Chef will be happy to answer them. You can also taste one or two of our house wines with your meal, which you can consider serving along with your wedding meal. The Wedding Tasting is complimentary for the couple getting married.
Do you cater for all special dietary requirements?
Yes, Chef will accommodate for all special dietary requirements with advance notice. We can also cater for 100% vegetarian/vegan weddings should the couple wish to avail of this for their special day.
Do you offer corkage?
Tankardstown does offer a Corkage facility, although as our packages include some alcohol, we do encourage our couples to check out our wine list which has been carefully created to compliment the dishes chosen by you for your menu. If you wish to further discuss corkage, please ask to your wedding co-ordinator for information.
Can you facilitate disabled guests?
We welcome disabled guests wherever possible at Tankardstown and try to facilitate their needs as best as possible, however, Tankardstown is an 18th Century House, so please discuss your requirements with us in advance to ensure the best laid plans can be put in place to make the day as enjoyable as possible for everyone.
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"After having our wedding at Tankardstown House, we can safely say we couldn't have asked for better! From when we first reached out, their communication was friendly, helpful and extremely professional, whilst also being very reassuring. Specifically Aine and Ruth were fantastic in helping us plan and deliver our vision and couldn't have been more helpful - thank you! On the day the venue, grounds and accommodation were immaculate, and they way the staff dealt with us and our guests was brilliant - they made everyone feel so special and important! Again, Ruth on the day, aided by Des in the evening, were fantastic and made our day and evening everything we wanted and so much more! We absolutely loved this venue and had the best time! We would highly recommend this venue - you'll have the most magical time! Thank you for everything!"
Melissa & Andrew
June 2025
The Perfect Day
"We knew from the moment of stepping into Tankardstown in July 2023 - this was the place for us. For our wedding weekend to play out as it did & how perfectly it flowed from start to finish was incredible. Thank you all for making this weekend & our wedding day the most incredible and unforgettable day of our lives. Tankardstown is the best there is for a reason and that shone through so clearly via every member of staff who worked on the day of the wedding. The world class chefs, the incredible wait staff, brilliant bar staff, impeccable cleaners, kind porters & night porters, welcoming reception and everyone we crossed. Our parents, as well as countless friends & family members said it was the best display of service they have ever seen at a wedding. Kate and I could not agree more - we are so grateful to every person present on the day for showing up in such an incredible way for us on the day.
We are so honoured to have been married at Tankardstown. We cannot wait to visit again as wedding guests and to stay & dine as guests of the house regularly too.
The day was perfect - you all played a huge part in that so thank you all.”
Kate & Dylan
May 2025
Most Amazing Venue
"The most amazing venue you could possibly think of for a wedding. Food and rooms were excellent but the real charm is the warmth and professionalism of the team. Des looked after us on the day and along with his team, delivered a 5 star extravaganza. Thank you to all."
Tommy & Dee
May 2025
Unbelievably Stunning
"Where to begin with this stunning venue! From the day we drove up that picturesque drive for our viewing, we knew instantly this was the venue we were going to get married in. From that very day, we were in communication with our wedding co-ordinator Sarah who was thoroughly helpful throughout the planning process right through to the final preparations. We had lots of questions throughout and she was always more than helpful and accommodating. Every staff member we had the good fortune of dealing with over the last couple of years have been absolutely phenomenal, from the door staff, the driver, bar staff, waiting staff, reception and restaurant staff - each and every one of you have been exceptional customer service professionals and made every interaction a positive one. Right up until the day we left the venue the morning after our big day, we couldn't believe how wonderfully helpful all staff were. We are more than aware you facilitate weddings almost every day of the week, but you somehow made us feel as though we were the only and most special wedding you had catered for. Our guests were absolutely raving about the generous portions of food on the day and how tasty it was. The venue itself speaks for itself, from the estate sitting rooms, to the beautiful orangery and the exceptional guest bedrooms, every square inch of this property is breath-taking. We couldn't have picked a better venue for our special day and our guests still can't believe how unbelievably stunning Tankardstown House is. Thank you for making our dreams come true!"
Gavin & James
December 2024
A Dream Wedding
"We truly cannot say enough wonderful things about this incredible venue. From start to finish everything was flawless, beautiful surroundings, outstanding food, and most importantly, the warm and attentive staff who made our day unforgettable. A huge thank you to Aine our amazing wedding coordinator! You were an absolute dream to work it, so organised, calm and genuinely kind. You made everything feel seamless, and we felt completely at ease knowing you had everything under control. You are amazing at what you do! We also have to mention the one and only Fran - what a gent! You brought such a lovely energy to the day and made both us and our guests smile and laugh throughout the day. The food was top class, with so many guests commenting on how delicious everything was. The kitchen team went above and beyond to cater to everyone's dietary needs, and it didn't go unnoticed. The accommodation was another major highlight for us. When we first viewed the venue the luxurious and cosy rooms really stood out - and our guests agreed. So many told us it was the nicest place they ever stayed for a wedding. If we could do it all again, we wouldn't change a thing and would 100% choose Tankardstown every single time! Thank you to everyone there for making our day so carefree, fun and full of happiness.
Jess & Alan
November 2024
A day we will never forget
"Could not have asked for anything more from start to finish, every single person was amazing to deal with and made it a day we will never forget. We still have people commenting on how fab the venue was staff were still to this day. If anyone was considering Tankardstown you will not regret it. I cannot thank Sarah and all the staff enough for making it a day we will never forget."
Amy & David
Sept 2024
Greatest Day of Our Lives
"What can we say but wow! We hand on heart had the greatest day of our lives, I could not be happier with how everything went.
The venue, wow, our guests did not stop raving about it. We can’t thank all the staff at Tankardstown that were there on the day who looked after us all enough. It was everything I dreamed of and more. The service was incredible, everyone was raving about the food the whole day from the canapes, to the main meal and the late evening food which was a massive hit and timed so well with the band taking their break. Everything just felt so seamless and smooth, there was ample food and wine. The orangery looked so beautiful as well it was exactly as I had envisioned. We also loved the way the top table was set so we could all chat to each other and everyone had a good view.
We ended up having a sing song in the sitting room with all the ramparts till after 3am. I’m still smiling now thinking about it all. I could honestly go on for hours about how perfect everything was. We have been in a complete wedding bubble and not stopped looking at pictures and watching videos and swapping stories about the whole day since.
Tankardstown will always hold such a special place in our hearts and we would absolutely love to return at some point in the future. No doubt some of our guests who are newly engaged are enquiring already about it. Thank you so much again."
Sarah & Sean
September 2024
International Wedding
"A big thank you for all of your help and support with our wedding. We’ve had a little time to let the weekend sink in and it was everything we could have hoped for.
The entire teams help was invaluable. Together we were able to make a great day or two happen, ones that we will remember for the rest of our days.
We were a very international crowd with people who regularly go to weddings, but the feedback we’ve had is that Tankardstown was a perfect venue - from the food to the accommodation, the setting and the hospitality.
We are also conscious that we had a lot of things we wanted to incorporate into the event and Tankardstown was so accommodating, and we massively appreciate that.
Many thanks and our love,
Tom and Rosanne xx"